If a husband starts coming home smelling like perfume every night or a wife comes home smelling like cologne every night, instincts are going to tell the other person in the relationship that they are being unfaithful. Obviously, you cannot really tell your significant other you think they are cheating because they have an unfamiliar fragrance on them. There are other ways to tell if you have a cheating spouse.
Using The Phone In Private
It is perfectly understandable for your significant other to go to the other room to talk on the phone if the room they are currently in is noisy. However, going out of their way to get far enough away from you as they can so you do not hear the conversation all the time is a sure sign that something is up. You still cannot really accuse them with this information because they could just be planning a surprise for you and not want you to hear about it.
More Than One Email Account
Some people have a personal and a business email account. However, if you notice your spouse is sending a lot of emails from an account other than their personal or business one, it should send up red flags. It is not a good idea for you to go snooping around on their computer, but it is a sign of a cheating spouse.
Lack of Free Time
It is common for cheating spouses to live very busy lives that do not leave them a lot of free time for their family members. If you feel like your spouse has grown very distance from you as well as your family, they could be cheating.
The real question people have is what do they do when they think that they have a cheating spouse? You could start snooping around their email and their phone records. However, if they are cheating, do you really want to stoop to their level? If they are not cheating, do you really want them to know that you thought they were? Your best option is to hire a private investigator. They can do all of the digging and give you what they find. Then you get the answers you want without having to do the dirty work.
